Today my Special guyfriend (I'm so lucky) told me a dear friend of ours may have 2 months to live. She has Cancer and the chemo helped to actually spread it through out her body. When I moved to Lancaster many years ago, i knew no one except Skip. Then my Church sent this lady to me to help me and help me with whatever i needed. She took me to dental appts some 60 plus miles away without complaint, though Fosters Freeze was across the street and with the dental work done i couldn't eat but Lee could and i sat with her in the car as she ate with gratitude in my heart that i could at least treat her for helping me. We became friends as we went places, we talked and shared. She had such a life, many sorrows till she found the right man to have in her life and they've been happy for many years. She can't have visitors now in her home. Her immune system is non-existent. I now am to far away but Skip, my special guyfriend(I'm so lucky) is there with them and thats a comfort that he can be with her husband through this. They are keeping her doped up on morphine plus other heavy stuff for the pain so she is unaware of whats what. I know she's ready to start her next life with those of her family and friends that have passed on as she goes "HOME" to our Heavenly Father. I truly believe this as i truly believe i will meet her again when i return HOME".
Life is to short, as they say, to have petty fights with family, disagreements and such. What a waste of negative emotion. Positive emotion adds to our lives and that should be what we want right?, right! Having a fight with siblings? end it. Put your life in the right direction. Sit and talk it out and say whats in your heart, the part of your heart that is open to feelings of love, a positive direction. With my friend dying and me having another Birthday this week, life is ebbing away and i want to make the most of the time I have left. Well, enough of this, I'm not meaning to be sad, I know where Lees going she will not be sick, her Spirit will be free of the shell that is crumbling. For that, I rejoice!
I guess from my lack of entries on Mysoapboard and here, I'm not well....I still keep track of you all. I feel the prayers and love you send my way....thank you from my heart. My youngest daughter has moved to Colorado! Wow, ! now she's at least a little bit closer to me than when she was in California. On her way through,she stopped to see me and i finally met my 1 yr old Granddaughter. It was a great visit, but to short DARN! LOL hope she'll LOVE snow! As far as Purrsimmons my cat, or should i say the Queen of this castle, is doing well. Shedding like crazy,think i need to change her diet before i end up buying her a toupee lol....Her Majesty got a Drinkwell drinking bowl. it has it's own fountain! Cats don't like to drink out of standing water, they would end up with tract infections and such before they'd drink out of a bowl. Before, I was using the bathroom sink. I had a cup on the bottom as the water dripped steadily from the faucet which caused icky stuff to happen to my sink so this solved the problem, now no one can complain I'm coddling her LOL....yea, right ;) Hey if any of you have suggestions on how to stop this heavy shedding problem, leave a message on MySoapBoard for me. I NEED help! Well, type at you later, hopfully not to much later;) Love Sunni
